Thursday, May 4, 2017

And after 2 years.....

Has it really been 2 years since my last update?? ๐Ÿ˜ฎ
Now that, is a very long time..

Okay I'm pretty sure no one actually comes here anymore, but oh well for the sake of responsibility and for the sake of this blog of mine that I'm not planning to get rid of (yet), I think I'mma start posting again starting with this one right here..

So two years...

Two freaking years.. What's up? 
What's been going on?  Yeap I'm still alive, I thank God for that ๐Ÿ˜‰

My God...
   A lot has been going on... I'm getting married ๐Ÿ’‘๐Ÿ’œin a few months time, that's prolly the biggest deal right now hahaha I've been all over the place and OMG my parents and my grand aunt, nek dua got into quite a major road accident in January ๐Ÿ˜•.
Long story, everyone's recovering, my dad can't walk on his own yet, but like I said, recovering, Alhamdulillah.

     I can't even go back to where and how it started it honestly still hurts me to bits and pieces. I don't even wish for anyone else to go through what we've gone through ๐Ÿ˜ฅ. Every time I visualized the scenes from the accident, my dad, my mom, nek dua, I tried the best I can to block those visions and block anything that's got to do with it from my mind. It became fresh, the pain, when I think about it.
It has definitely been a life changing experience for me and my family๐Ÿ˜ญ.
From the moment we received the phone call, to those times when we were going back and forth to the hospital since my dad was in the ER, the ICU, and the orthopedic ward. It was exhausting but it meant a lot to us, to be taking care of him to ensure him that we will always, always be right by his side no matter what happens๐Ÿ’™.
 He's currently at a nursing home back in our hometown. Since he still can't do some stuffs on his own, and we have to move on with our lives with our work and all and can only come back once in awhile, once a week, the best I can do... Took him home once in awhile when we're back.. 
Just hoping for his recovery to go smoothly, for Allah to make things easier for him ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™......
Well that're pretty much it, from that one hell of a nightmare-ish experience....

   Okay now back to myself...
Oh yessss.. I've said it, I'm getting maaaarrrieddd.. Lol yup..
Me....... Getting married ๐Ÿ’‘...
The Vee... is getting married... at 29 LOL that's actually a good thing you know..
I've always known that I'm not one who'd be married at a young age.


YESSSS go back to my couple of previous posts... That new boyfriend from 3 years back?
He's now my fiancรฉ ๐Ÿ˜ Yeahhhhhhh.. That guy.. 
We got engaged on December last year LOL you've missed alot huh yup I can see that ๐Ÿ’ค

Well I guess that's all for now.. This is the best I can do for a quick update, to prove that this blog is still alive, and I'm very much alive ๐Ÿ˜… In fact, this is quite a long one, no?

Tee hee..

Now that I've start posting, let's hope it won't be another 2 years til' my next upcoming update LOL

See  ya!!! ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’จ

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Just A Very Short Update


It really HAS been a while huh..

But here I am, and yeap I'm still alive.. In case you're wondering.
And this blog page is still alive too, thankfully.

What's new with me...

Still pretty much in love with that same guy I wrote about in my few last posts :) (Alhamdulillah)

Work has been, just okay..
Still the same slow Vee, at times I couldn't stop myself from realizing that fact every time I messed up.


You know how I love making friends wherever I go, right? And that's just what I did.
My circle has been expanding every time
Nothing beats people who aren't judgmental and accept us for who we are and make us feel so welcomed.

All good. (Alhamdulillah)

This is the best I can do because I kinda don't have much time lol.

Will deffffinitely come back as soon as I can, and write something more worth reading.


Monday, December 22, 2014


I can't sleep..

I just can't sleep.. 

As i lay here on my parents' bed next to my mom, i got my mind drifted for awhile and started to think...

What can i do for the world?
What can i do for the people around me?

How do i make sure that everyone is happy?

My grand aunt, she must be missing her dearest late husband, my beloved grand uncle..
She's bored, but if only she has an option.. 

My parents.
I've achieved nothing. Nothing for them to be proud of.. But i wish i could do something.. But what.

The world.

The world.

What can i do for the world?

I haven't done anything for myself and how could i even dreamt of doing something for the world.

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Thank YOU

Monday, June 23, 2014


And ready to live once again.

Monday, June 9, 2014

How I Want It To Be

Thursday, May 22, 2014

Just Me & My Silent Prayer

Life has been hectic.
What with me working in the super morning shift AKA the zombie shift AKA the graveyard shift..
Time's flying a lil' too fast..

Just 13 days ago (May 9th) marked my 3rd year working as a media research specialist here in Media Monitors Malaysia Sdn Bhd.
No really, wow..
I've only managed to stay at least 3 months in my previous work places, and I actually made it here for 3 years. Now that's an achievement! Yay me!

What's new.
Hm. Oh my sister is getting married in 9 days time from now. 9 DAYS man! Too much things going on I sometimes lost track of time.
My elder/eldest/only sister is finally getting married at 29 years old.

There's nothing more I could wish for but for the ceremonies to go smoothly, for both sides of our families, and a lifetime of happiness to both my sister and my future brother in law. Amin to that.

Oh me?
Oh please stop.
I have around 9 days til' I have to deal with people asking me when will it be my turn and such.
I'm not saying I'm prepared, but I just control myself from thinking too much about it.
I mean about the questions, not marriage!
Of course I've been thinking about marriage. I'm human too, remember? LOL.
But hey, as what I've posted just previously, INSHA'ALLAH.. God's willing. My knight in shining armor will come for me sooner or later.

For now, let's say I'm enjoying myself by living life to the fullest.

Well people has been asking if I'm seeing anyone. People are so curious because all they wanna be sure of is whether or not I'm really over with my previous relationship. I know how lucky I am to be loved by many, friends and families who actually cares. I know they don't want me to get on the wrong track all over again..

But what can I say, it has indeed been hard for me. To get over him. I think 4 years of a relationship is quite long enough. What with the rocky moments. Sometimes the rockiest, the worst of 'em all are the ones that's gonna leave a long lasting wound. 

SOMEHOW, I think I have successfully managed to finally get over him.

It's true when they say sometimes things tend to look hard if you keep thinking that it's hard. Unless you keep trying and don't give up. Put some efforts here and there instead of dwelling over it for nothing.
But yea, I've succeeded. I stopped thinking about him like how I used to.

And then there was this one time. This one night when I was sitting all alone and thought about all those hurtful things and hard times that I went through with him. And then it sorta gave me a snap, back to reality.
I cried and told myself if I keep going back, if I keep telling him I miss him, he'd tell me that he has been missing me too and we get to talk to each other, that's when shit will never stop. Why? Because I'd be the one who'd give him all the privilege to hurt me all over again. And I asked myself, how does all of this end? What would end this? Until when?
That night I prayed hard. Really hard.
I told Allah that if he's meant for me, then help him. Guide him to change. And make me stronger because I'm gonna need all the strength I can get to wait for him to change.

But if he's not, give me the strength to forget.
And bring me closer to that one person, who ever he could be, who may have been meant for me.

Surprisingly, just around that time, this one person came into my life. I'm not saying that I'm sure he's my soul mate. But it's just that, he came.
For how long that I have avoided from seeing a new man, for how long I have been trying hard to get over the previous one, this person came and we became friends.
We went out for a few times already, but all I can say is, we're really trying to take it one step at a time. Very very slowly.
Well if it's meant to be it's meant to be..

But I have to admit it, I do wish for this to be my last stop; if we're meant to be.
Sometimes I just get tired you know. And at one point I can't even imagine myself starting over again. Meeting new people. Trying to understand people. Trying to get people to understand me. Me and my wacky behavior. I'm pretty sure not everyone would fancy wacky people. I'm wacky, loud, unpredictable, I can be strong and weak at the same time. I can be loud and quiet at the same time. I can be moody and I'm pretty sure I'm emotional. But see, as a Muslim, I believe that each one of us has been destined with a partner. Destined since we were born. So yea. No matter how wacky I am, no matter how emotional I can be, I do know that some lucky guy out there is gonna love me for who I am. 

Okay whatever.
My english is bad. This is long. And boring.
No one is gonna read this anyway.
Sorry I can't reveal much about this 'new friend' of mine.
My reason is simple, its too soon. I don't wanna hope too much. But it's just gonna be me and my silent prayers.
And for now, I guess it's not wrong for me to...